About the book
Working life can feel like a never-ending masterclass on how to fit in and fix all the ways we are not good enough.
Constantly comparing ourselves to others and to standards that are not our own, we strive to prove and mould ourselves. We feel overwhelmed and depleted. We just want to survive. We resist the things we need the most. We lose touch with who we really are and what we really want for our lives.
But what if true success and happiness flows from being who we are, not changing who we are?
What if everything we need is already inside of us?
What if we just need release the things that weigh us down?
What if we just need to figure out how to be true to ourselves?
Beneath all the layers of conditioning, under the masks and armour, we all want the same things. We want to live and work in a way that honours the truth of who we are. We want to be part of something bigger than ourselves. We want to feel seen, really seen.
John Mellencamp sang, ‘Life goes on, long after the thrill of living is gone.’ The practice of self-fidelity lifts us out of a half-dead existence to rediscover the thrill of living – through our work. Self-fidelity supports us to wake up and reconnect to our abundant inner natural resources. By cultivating a better understanding of our essential nature, and all the things that have been suppressing it, we lift ourselves and others up – this is the practice of self-fidelity.
This book is for you if:
You are sick and tired of trying to ‘fix’, mould and prove yourself
You want to experience greater fulfillment, happiness and vitality at work, and in life
You believe that work has the potential to be life-enhancing – not soul-destroying.
Self-Fidelity is for anyone who wants to work in a way that lifts themselves, and others up. As we restore our faith in ourselves, we restore our faith in each other.
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